Ditched Your Boyfriend Recently? He Might Pay You Back Like This.

I won’t be surprised if you start to think whether HBB jumped to another niche or something like that. I believe blog post titles help readers and visitors to find a quick solution to their problems, so this is it.

I’ll start with my Facebook feed, I would have seen almost 50+ relationship changes from ‘in relationship’ to ‘single’ in the past few months (I have almost 5K friends, my profile here). Sometimes I feel sad, and sometimes I feel happy that they didn’t get married because it would have been much worse. Ok, coming back to the post.

“In Relationship” to “Single” Change

There would have been many personal reasons. Some boys and girls, they love each other, hang out, have a sexual relationship, and at one point, any one of them decides to break up. But this ‘breakup’ thing won’t be accepted by both of them. There start the fight and revenge (or vengeance).

What Normally Happens In A Relationship?

Nowadays even some friends kiss, hug each other, hang out, etc. So when two people love each other, the limit is expanded. They will probably have consensual sex, take naughty pictures or videos, pose in semi-nude dresses, etc. I’m not offending true love here, but we do have some cases where people love just for sex right? Let’s talk about them here.

So before marriage, it is possible that some young lovers might involve in such sexual relationships. I would not have wrote this post if this ends here, but it isn’t. During my research for the posts “The Hard Truth Behind Your Daughter’s Pocket Money”, “15+ Blogging Tactics I Learned From ‘Porn’”, and “10+ Ways How Porn Websites Make Huge Bucks” I browsed through some porn videos, and surprising I got the chance to watch some footages and scandals. A young couple was having sex and it was like, the girl didn’t even know there was a damn camera shooting the whole thing. They looked like college students, so obviously they would not have been married and they love each other (well, maybe at that time), that’s why the girl agreed to have such a relationship.

Why The Video Was Uploaded?

The obvious reasons should be a breakup, betrayal, marriage issues, some personal issues, etc. But whatever it is, this is something immoral and damages the girl’s life.

You might have visited a porn website and would have seen various pictures of young girls there, you would not have felt anything wrong or bad in that. But the hard truth is, not everyone in that site, is really what they are. In almost every adult website there is an option to add photos or upload videos. People use these options to pay their ex-girlfriends back.

What He Might Do To Pay You Back? Please Note The Word “Might”

I’m not offending true boyfriends here, this is just for the lusted ones. He might use the following options to pay you back.

1. Popular Video Streaming Sites (say YouTube) [RECOVER]

2. Popular Social Networking site (Say Facebook) [RECOVER]

3. Porn or Adult Websites [RECOVER]


Removing Your Video From YouTube

Ok, so YouTube is undoubtedly the undisputed champion of online video streaming sites. So that makes YouTube a possible destination for violating your privacy and to destroy your moral values or culture. Like I said, I already visited YouTube and surfed through various videos and found them quite disturbing. If you a victim of this, I think this procedure will be helpful to you.

If you are present in a particular YouTube video (I repeat, if you are present there!), then you can claim rights to the video and you can remove since it affects your privacy. By this, you can completely whitewash the video from the streaming site.

Just go to that video, and do the steps mentioned in the screenshot below.

Report YouTube Video

And after this, you’ll be taken to a Privacy Complaint Process. You’ll see those steps below.

STEP 1: Privacy Complaint Process

Like mentioned in the screenshot below make sure you are uniquely identifiable in the video you are about to report. Copyright complaint is different from Privacy complaint, the former is considered when someone steals your own video and uploads. We are dealing with “Privacy complaint” now. Click the button and proceed to the next step.

STEP 1: Privacy Complaint Process
STEP 1: Privacy Complaint Process

STEP 2: Are you Being Harassed?

If you are harassed by a YouTube user you can try the first option, but we can go with the next option now in order to remove that video. So proceed with “My privacy is being violated”.

STEP 2: Are you Being Harassed?
STEP 2: Are you Being Harassed?

STEP 3: Contact The Uploader

Since your boyfriend or someone, you ditched uploaded the video you won’t be able to contact the uploader and solve this issue. So proceed with the last option then.

STEP 3: Contact The Uploader
STEP 3: Contact The Uploader

STEP 4: Flag The Video

Review YouTube Community Guidelines (important!) and proceed with the option.

STEP 4: Flag The Video
STEP 4: Flag The Video

STEP 5: Accepting The Terms

I’m sure that you are sure that you are present in the video that you are going to report. But do note false privacy claim could lead to account suspension. Now click “I accept these terms” button.

STEP 5: Accepting The Terms
STEP 5: Accepting The Terms

STEP 6: Final Complaint Process

Now here is the final complaint process, read all the options carefully and choose them.

You need to enter the original details here. Please don’t enter fake details.

STEP 6: Final Complaint Process
STEP 6: Final Complaint Process

That’s all! Now you have to verify yourself formally. That improves the chance of removing your video asap. Many people have this doubt, “How YouTube Checks For Privacy Violation?”. I found an official reply from them.

How does YouTube determine if content should be removed for a privacy violation?

For content to be considered for removal, an individual must be uniquely identifiable by image, voice, full name, Social Security number, bank account number or contact information (e.g. home address, email address).

Examples that would not violate our privacy guidelines include gamer tags, avatar names, and address information in which the individual is not named. We also take public interest, newsworthiness, and consent into account when determining if content should be removed for a privacy violation. YouTube reserves the right to make the final determination of whether a violation of its privacy guidelines has occurred.

You can learn information regarding this on YouTube Privacy Guidelines.


Removing Your Fake Facebook Profile Account

Creating a fake Facebook profile and uploading photos of ex-girlfriends is quite trending now. I would have come across at least 100s of such profiles recently.

You can easily identify a fake facebook profile, it looks messy and it looks as if it is created within 30 seconds!

You can report a fake Facebook profile in two cases.

  • 1. You are in Facebook, and someone is impersonating you.
  • 2. You are not in Facebook, and someone is impersonating you.

You can also do the same for your friends if they are facing the same issue. Try to provide genuine details while reporting.

FULL POST HERE: [HOW TO] Report Fake Facebook Profile Account

Some crap people also upload their girlfriends photo on adult Facebook groups and pages to spoil their reputation and moral value.

HOW TO: Report/Remove Your Photo

You have the option to report anonymously the photos that violate Facebook’s Statement of Rights and Responsibilities (ex: pornography). You can do that by using Report This Photo in the Options menu at the bottom of the photo. Facebook reviews these complaints and takes down photos as necessary.

This is a photo I took from some adult kinda Facebook page with all sorts of babes and bitches, I don’t know why Facebook allows such pages. I came across this photo (blurred it) and thought this could be a photo of someone (maybe your friend or my friend’s friend) who never ever thought that her photo will end up in such pages.

report fake photo faceboook

That’s sad. This is just a sample photo and you can find the “Report Photo” option at the bottom right. Click that and you’ll get a popup like this.

report harassing photo facebook

Choose the appropriate option, because if the photo is of your friend, then you need to choose the option given for that.

what you can do facebook photo

Some times just because your photo is present on such pages it might not be removed, but providing your identifications to Facebook can solve this issue. If the photo present is offensive (I mean if it is nude or over sexy) then the chances of removing are high.


Removing Your Video/Picture From Porn Websites

After successfully completing their mission on YouTube and Facebook, their next move is to enter “Adult” industry. With millions of porn sites out there, they can easily pick some popular ones and upload your picture or video there. You can see the screenshot took from a popular porn site, all they have to do is to click that thread and upload your nasty pic there.

Internet is filled with dirty pictures and movies, but that part is only for lust-filled people.

Forum Threads

Now, you would have seen your pic on such a site. Or worse, you would have seen your video on such a site. Now apart from panicking you can do several things. Normally every porn website has ‘content removal’ or ‘takedown’ form to save their reputation. Normally you can find such links on the footer (bottom of a website).

The form will be similar to this, you need to enter your original details here, because you shouldn’t end up in trouble if they ask you to verify your identification later.

Privacy Take Down Form
Privacy Take Down Form

There is another method to protect your video, you need to know about Digital Video Fingerprinting first. The uploading of your content can be blocked by this.

“You must provide a list of the videos you want to protect. Each line should be a URL to a direct video file and some description text for quick identifying later on.”

Content Protection Technique
Content Protection Technique

Almost all the popular sites will take action quickly since such issues can risk their reputation.

Facebook, YouTube, and Adult websites are the main targets. Normally when you are under such situations you can consider the following actions too.

1. Contact the Uploader

The best and the decent way is to contact the person who uploaded it. You can explain the situation and you can do your best to get that video or picture removed. This is also the best option because you can ask the uploader from where he/she got the picture and you can the needful there too.

2. Use “Report Abuse” option

You can flag or report abuse. Almost all the sites have this option and you can specify what happened actually.

3. Contact the Administrator

This is also an effective way, you can contact the Administrator or webmaster of that website and tell him what happened. You can check the WhoIs, find the owner (who could also be the administrator) and inform him about the situation.

If not responding: You can threaten to sue the website for emotional damages.

4. File DMCA Complaint

You can officially try to remove your information from these sites, it might be difficult but not impossible. In theory, the pictures are copyrighted by you or your organization; therefore, you (or a lawyer) should be able to draft DMCA notices and forward them to the website owners, the search engines, and the web site’s ISP.

5. Report Offensive Image (via Google)

If you can find your image on Google Images, then you can report the photo through Google. In the SafeSearch drop-down (near the search box), click Report Offensive Images. Click the Report button on the image you’d like to report.

They might not be able to take immediate action on the images you report, but it is worth to report.

Report Offensive Image - Google

If you know the URL of an offensive image you’ve found, you can submit that for a more immediate review by using the offensive content reporting tool (be sure to note the URL of the Google results page, not the URL of the image).

6. Remove Your Name From Google’s Search Results

If an adult website contains your name then you can use Google to remove that.

Remove Name from Adult Site
Remove Name from Adult Site

You can try this link for removing your name from such sites using Google. Your address email will be forwarded to the appropriate team for further investigation.

7. Contact the Police (Cybercrime)

I should have mentioned this point before, but there are some issues with it. If you are an adult you can move this issue quite easily. But if you are a minor it’ll be a difficult case because you need to bring an adult (your brother or trusted elder friend) along with you. Reporting these incidents to Cybercrime is the best option but you can also do the above-mentioned things side by.

Conclusion

I believe a majority of the people reading this post are adults and it doesn’t matter even if a minor reads this post, things like this are bound to happen. Better be safe than sorry, don’t fall prey for such lusted so-called lovers or boyfriends. If you are a minor then don’t even think about having a sexual relationship under any circumstances. If you choose a wrong guy to hang out with, then your video or picture will be present on all those sites I mentioned above.

I won’t end the post here, I have something for my gender too, there are thousands of good ways to take revenge if a girl you truly loved ditched you just-like-that. Maybe if I start a personal blog I’ll write about it. 😉 I know how you guys might feel, but doing such things (like the ones mentioned above) ends your life in Jail. Before you take any silly action, just spend some 10-15 minutes to read the below articles too,

A 32-year-old Racine man was arrested Dec. 5 after he attempted to blackmail an Oak Creek woman with nude photos he received from her through a “personals” website.

    • Man in cop net for posting obscene photos

The Crime Branch on Tuesday arrested director of a financial management firm in Puri for allegedly uploading obscene pictures of a woman on a porn website.

    • Jilted lover creates fake Facebook account of woman, arrested

A man has been arrested on charges of creating a fake Facebook account and posting defamatory and obscene comments about a woman, who had rejected his love proposal, Andhra Pradesh police said on Friday.

Not just these, give a Google search and you’ll find thousands of such cases. Think thrice before you do such silly things and think whether you want to end your life in prison just for your silly revenge like this? What are you going to do is “Cybercrime”, which is something often done by Terrorists, wait you don’t want to be compared with Terrorists right?

10+ Interesting Ways How Porn Websites Make Money

I never thought of writing this post, but I don’t want to waste the content I had in my mind. So here it is. Before that, I would like to stress that free porn is something more popular than Facebook or Google. The more you see, the more you get addict. Porn Internet Marketers use this simple logic to attract millions of visitors and earn billions (and even more) through that. You can check the Internet Pornography stats for that.

This post is purely for “learning” purposes to understand how people start a porn website, like how porn (adult) websites make money as a business. You can learn a lot from this if you are a blogger or if you are a webmaster. Let’s find out how adult websites make money now.

How Porn Websites Make Money?

1. Premium Content

Who hates “free porn”? The fact is that they don’t provide all for free, they also have a premium section that provides HD quality content and unlimited access to the videos available.

Premium Ads

Normally below every streaming video (on tube sites) you can check banners like these tempting users to register and purchase a premium membership from them.

Premium Ads

They also show distracting advertisements and offering them a way to remove them, i.e., buy a premium account. These streaming sites use something called Adult Video Script (AVS) for making a clone like YouTube. This is a common way how porn websites make money; you can easily identify that.

A Sample Premium Membership Facilities

  • Download all available videos
  • 21,360 full DVDs
  • 134,710 HQ scenes
  • No Ads and Pop-Unders
  • Profile promotion – be popular!

2. Video Ads – Tube Sites

Streaming sites are quite popular for porn, thanks to YouTube, the concept of streaming applied widely. Like YouTube, they also show advertisements on the videos. Sometimes they display ads during the play, but the users will have the option to close it. They also show ads when a user pauses the video.

Video Ads

Typically the users will get confused like they’ll think that the advertisement is the real video and click it. Big bucks for the site.

Ad networks like JuicyAds act as a marketplace for both publishers and advertisers. You can sell your ad space as well buy some ad space.

3. Affiliate Ads

Yes, Affiliate Marketing is also popular here, why? Because porn sites have targeted users. They have good demographics base; they know what kind of visitors they will get. So by placing such affiliate advertisements near a video can easily tempt the viewers to click on it, rest is history.

affiliate ads

They request you to join their services for free and afterward, hidden charges. Normally there are three types in Affiliate Program.

1. Per-Click Program: They give you up to $1.00 per each unique visitor per day.

2. Percentage Program: The more traffic you send, the more you earn with their percentage program.

3. Per Order Payout: Some sites pay you up to 70$ for any order placed on their site.

Portals like AWEmpire are ruling the affiliate market in this industry with various content promoting materials.

IF YOU ARE ENTERING THIS FIELD, THEN YOU SHOULD CHECK THIS OUT:

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4. PPS Program

PPS programs are nothing but, Pay Per Sale Programs. For every sale referred by you, they’ll give the commission, sometimes like 70-75% of the price.

Health Product Ads

If you can see the advertisements above you won’t be surprised why they are popular. Porn sites sell drugs and other kinds of toys that are widely prevalent among sex addicts. They won’t mind spending few bucks to increase their lust.

5. Live Webcams

Live Webcams are very popular in this industry. It’s like you are having a Skype conversation with an artist who performs adult-related things. I saw how popular live webcam sites like LiveJasmin works and they have a dedicated hub for all the performers.

fake chat

But there are plenty of fake advertisements that fool you with scripted windows and stuff, don’t fall for them. For some agencies, this could be the rise of Internet Porn.

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6. Online Dating

If you are a “Forever Alone” guy, then chances are you end up in a porn site one day or another. So big brands out there targeted this particular audience and introduced the concept “Adult Online Dating” or “Adult Dating”. Popular dating program Adult Friend Finder is a successful business through this.

So if you see any advertisements popping up and asking whether you are free tonight, make sure you think thrice before clicking that ad, it is entirely up to you.

7. Online Porn Games

This is also quite popular nowadays. Online porn/sex games are both available in free and premium version. Just like the #1 point, they’ll provide you the trial version for free and will prompt you to pay for getting the full version. Hidden charges in short.

Online Porn Games

These games are also very popular on mobile phones and iPad.

8. Through Fusion Marketing

I’ll start with an example for this one, you are downloading your favorite song from Rapidshare, and unfortunately, the downloaded file is a small porn clip with an URL to visit the main site. It is just a matter of preference, whether people will see it or not. I recommend not to try this one with ‘dark’ intention.

I’ll tell you how to adapt and adjust. They use a particular type of Marketing called Fusion Marketing. Here you still give people what they are asking for; that’s the highlight. We are talking about legitimate Fusion Marketing, not porn oriented. A Fusion Marketer will give you what you want and also at the same time ride along with his marketing message, i.e., the advertisement.

Example (Real World) : Seeing movies advertised on the cups of soft drinks served at KFC. Yep, we call that as Fusion Marketing. Porn Marketers use Fusion Marketing in a wrong way, in other words, they use ‘Bait-and-switch’ method. This irritates the customers a lot. Bait-and-switch is a form of fraud, most commonly used in retail sales but also applicable to other contexts. First, customers are “baited” by advertising for a product or service at a low price; second, the customers discover that the advertised good is not available and are “switched” to a costlier product.

9. Credit Card Tactics

Internet Marketers and Bloggers still use this trick to grab customers’ attention. Moreover, it also makes easier for consumers to make a buying decision. Consider this incident for example (of course, for example only), you are visiting a porn website, and you are attracted towards a short (& sexy) clip of your favorite porn actress (hmm, why not Brianna Banks?).

Now obviously you are interested in seeing the full clip, but before you can view the entire clip, you need to cross one quick step. Now you are asked for your credit card details (and you gave it, damn) since there are several reasons for asking them. Maybe they wanted to verify that you are above 18 years old, or they are giving $1 trial offer for the first few days of access. Now you are viewing the full-length video. Bingo! But the fact is, after one month you will get your credit card bill, and your soul won’t know the charges (yet). Now that will be great for the porn sites and dangerous for unsuspecting consumers.

10. Embed Videos on sites

Larger sites pay smaller tube sites to embed their videos, and they both earn from ads within the video player. Some sites even pay to provide short clips of the beginnings of a video for tube sites to upload. Sometimes they earn a cut from each sign-up.

Sharing Traffic and Money

If you are watching a porn video on a random website, you could have seen example.com’s logo or some branding, this is the real reason for that.

Such porn companies pay the tubes to feature their content, so it can direct some traffic to their pay sites. Though most of the famous tube sites and porn sites are all owned by the same company.

11. PPC & CPM

Like regular websites, adult websites also use such Pay Per Click (PPC) and Cost Per Impression (CPM) programs. Of course, they earn 100x than natural sites. But they can’t use Adsense and those normal ad networks because they won’t accept adult/porn content usually. But there are some special PPC and CPM programs exclusively made for such sites.

They also earn money through direct advertisements, like selling ad spaces directly to the advertisers. Porn websites easily attract advertisers. There are many such ad networks exclusively for this. A good advantage for them is, if there is no advertiser available to buy your ad space, then their network ads will display on your site so you can earn money through their CPC program.

12. Donations

They set up a donation system to allow visitors to give money of their choice. The most common and easiest way, as you know, is PayPal. They set up a simple PayPal donation so that their readers and visitors can easily make the payment.

It works if they have a good number of regular visitors, and they have a blog attached to their site where they can discuss with their readers/viewers.

13. File hosting and Image hosting

File hosting and image hosting are some of the good ways to earn from a porn/adult website. How? They host the adult content on their sites, and they make big money when someone downloads your files from those hosting sites.

By this, porn site webmasters and internet marketers are indirectly promoting the file and image hosting sites. They also get traffic by making their download link URL viral.

14. Content Locker or Content Gateway

Some sites have Content Lockers or Gateways like the visitors should complete some surveys before they can view the main targeted content. By this site webmasters have been earning thousands of dollars each month.

Content Locker

They prevent you from accessing the main content and ask you to pay them before proceeding. You would have eagerly visited the URL from another link or another part, but they’ll prompt you to pay them for viewing the content.

15. Short URLs

Another interesting way is using short URLs/links while sharing images, videos, or any online link. There are several URL shorteners like Shorte.st who monetizes and generates a short URL for you. You can virally spread it in all the available networks and generate decent revenue from this.

If you are running a popular adult/porn website, then you can check out AWEmpire’s Affiliate Income Calculator to know how much your website is capable of generating revenue in this business.

Though some of these tactics are also applied on normal sites, why, even your own blogs but porn sites make them, even more, appropriate because the kind of visitors they have. That’s what we call “Sexy.”

Earlier I wrote a post – 15+ Blogging Tactics I Learned From ‘Porn’ and you can compare both, the tactics are quite explained there.

These are in fact some of the known ways how porn websites make money; they have some hidden tactics as well.