HOW TO: Make Girls Accept Facebook Friend Requests

Quite recently you might have given friend request to a girl on Facebook, but she would have simply declined it? Remember? Yup. Don’t spin your wheels by giving her friend request again and again. That stalks and needles her so much. She might even report abuse against you. Gorgeous, isn’t it? :P

Girls won’t expect looks or money. Being sincere and honest, at least online, is more than enough. If you want to make girls accept Facebook friend requests, you just need to act like a man.

Make Girls Accept Facebook Friend Requests

Basic Tips To Refresh Your Profile

Completed Profile - Make Girls Accept Facebook Friend Requests

#1 – Use A Clear Display Picture : Yes, use a clear display picture of yours. It doesn’t count whether you look handsome or ugly. Recommended to use your own photo, so that she won’t consider it as a fake profile.

Note : Some guys think they have smart a*s and they use a female profile picture in order to get accepted. Believe me, it’s a bad try. You won’t stay in her friends list for long. Girls beware of them!

#2 – Validate Profile : If you leave your profile blank, then it looks like a fake profile, as if someone created an account urgently. Fill all the relevant information. Use Facebook Vanity URL for your Profile.

Make Of “Mutual Friends” – They Help A Lot!

#3 – Increase Mutual Friends : Golden tip. To earn some trust, you should have good number of mutual friends. Find some users who are related to your niche or interests in her friends list. Add them.

#4 – Statuses and Photos : If she likes and comments on your mutual friend’s status or photo, yes you are right, do the same!!

#5 – Tagging : Ask your mutual friends to tag yourself and that girl in a status or photo. Involve in a discussion and that’s a great way to introduce yourself.

#6 – Share Your Statues : Ask your mutual friends to share your statuses and links. They might be seen by her and your name gets familiar.

#7 – Suggestion : Ask your mutual friends to suggest you to her. Like recommending you to her. Works most of the time.

Facebook Pages, Groups And Applications

FB Apps

#8 – Pages and Groups : Now go to her profile and like all the pages. Also join all the groups in which she is a member. Be active in all those pages and groups. Now try to involve her in some discussion.

#9 – Create a Page : If she loves “Harry Potter”, create a page for it. Let it flow in and around. You can automatically talk/chat with her by updating a awesome status regarding Harry Potter! :P

#10 – Facebook Applications : Connect with her through Facebook Applications like Farmville and Mafiawars. Majority of the girls in my friends list addicted to Farmville, they even forget to put makeup! Oofs! :D

Miscellaneous Facebook Tips

#11 – Analyze Her Statuses : Just to be familiar with her likings and stuffs.

#12 – Is she a blogger? Then read all her articles. Ok, not all but some of the finest articles and comment there using your Facebook profile URL. Meanwhile, share her articles on Twitter and other networks. They love it! :lol:

#13 – Videos and Photos : If she is a fan of Sachin Tendulkar or Aishwarya Rai, then upload all their photos and videos in your profile. Make sure they go viral!!

Getting Ready To Send Friend Request – Mission Possible!

#14 – Add A Personal Message : Now you need to be clear and specific about your intention of giving her a friend request. Make it short and sweet, but yet sensitive. Honestly I hate when people who give friend requests stating, “You look damn beautiful” or “You look like Megan Fox”. Girls do love these compliments, but they simply smile and decline your request! Piss!

Tell her they had a debate, discussion at this group or that group. Tell her that you cleaned her farm (Farmville). Also tell her that you know her friends (mutual friends) and would like to know about her too. Whatever it is, give some sense to it and then click “Send Request”.

#15 – No Response From Her : Common fact. Some girls don’t add people quickly. Especially the male gender. They love to keep them in “Pending” state. So you can use “Send a message” option and tell her. Just use the personal message you gave earlier or discuss about any article she wrote.

These are some funny yet workable things to make girls accept Facebook friend requests but seriously if you want to know a girl, don’t stalk her online, get to be her friend offline and we don’t have any article regarding that yet. :P

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49 Opinions on “HOW TO: Make Girls Accept Facebook Friend Requests

  1. it seems you known much about girls…… and somewhat you are at the point…. thanks for writing a unique article like this….

    • I think Isha is wright :)
      You know more about girls :P

      I think you can also include some flirty quotes on your Facebook Profile , but you have to be careful and selective while choosing such quotes :)

      Rest all depends on “I am What I am” => Just to impress a girl don’t change your profile with a nice celebrity photo, instead have your photo way too simple with a smile :) :D

      Cheers :)

  2. awesome article . thanks for sharing your experience :)

  3. GirlBoundBloggers :D You analyzed the girls well…. Hat's off

  4. Certainly a unique article…well though article. I am sure this going to help many people Lol

  5. Most of the girls hide their infos on FB. What is the best way to get those ?

  6. It might not work with everyone …i meant all the girls. Anyway, nice try. :)

  7. Where you will sit and think all these?

  8. ROFL!! @Pardeep get a life buddy! :P

  9. It is out of topic for me since i married, however i like some of your points that you said don’t mask your profile with ladies photos, it creates bad neighbourhood and you will not stay long time also i like how to propose a gal with mutual friends influence…

  10. Wow..never thought you would write this kinda stuff :-)

    But great tips :P

  11. I juwt send the request and 90% accept… never though you need all of this to get on a friends list.

  12. haha , girls , a big distraction from blogging. i dont usually add a girl in FB , if shez not a blogger …

  13. Nice post, but “#13 – Add A Personal Message” is the most important…

  14. Hmm.. You have are really good at these kinda stuffs, right??

    You can even start a new blog and be a ‘Love guru’ :D (just kidding yaar…!)

  15. Lol haha look at this bad guy! Man am sure ur fb list is full of girls only! All the galz do love to send a friend request to me also i do send to them and they’ve nt rejected me! Lol nice post bro keep the good work up.

  16. Perhaps nice one!!!
    But i have never got declined!!!

  17. Stalking 101 here. :)

  18. Awesome……..
    Never thought this kind of article on HBB :)

  19. Hey Pradeep.

    Really Great Post and very cache Title.

    Thanks for sharing this great post.

  20. Good one pradeep…
    Now I am curious to see how many girls you have in your facebook friend list… ;)
    All good points :)

  21. Haha, this is good. Now, do you have any tips on how to make boys accept your fb friend requests? :-)

  22. Hahaha, this is interesting! It really depends on the person if they add you or not. Some add people they know and some add for gaming purposes. Even if you add someone with a mutual friend, they check if they know that friend too.

  23. Thanks for the tips, but mate I’d lose many of my friends if I use your tips! :P
    I think you really need to go a long way before understanding a girls’ mind .. technology is your prime! Don’t venture in to this gray land! ;)

  24. Great Article…..:)
    I definitely try these steps in future…

  25. Nice, I gotta hit up my Facebook now

  26. Thanks for your post…but i think its like a tech tips…mainly depends upon girls mind what they think…….. :)

  27. hey thanx a lot plz tell me your facebook id ………
    1 req that plz add a general massage for girls while adding them..
    thanx ones again

  28. i sent a friend request to a girl which i like her on fb but i did not want to tell her, she sent me a msg that do i know you & i reply her yes & she ask me how do u know me. so tell me what can i do so she accept my request.

  29. awome tips hands off to u working for me… thnkz dude…

  30. i want a girl but she dont know me
    what message can i send to her so that she accept my request.
    she is in another college..

    • Declan James Pennick says:

      sos 4 very late reply but tell her say "i think" not "i no",and if she is a mutual friend 2 one of your mutual friends then say i see your posts cos i am pretty sure that happens,if not then,BUSTED :D that is all i can give you

  31. u r right, it works.

  32. OM G!!! Its a Hard job right(it would take weeks or may be months) ! do what ever u want to do but keep in mind girls r not our destine to wast ur expensive time on it !

  33. the article abt makin girls accept ur frnd request was interesting nd unique… bt people run fake profile wid pics of real live beautiful men & women

  34. your right it works
    i want make a friendship with giral please send me one good request massage

  35. Arvind patel says:

    thanks dude….:-) let’s see if it works…

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